Seeking appreciation

Sarees were in the shop at one time. Another woman was buying saris there. I had no acquaintance with her, but she wrapped herself on two or three girls and asked me, 'Which of these looks beautiful?' I was surprised, but I expressed my opinion

Granted. After some time she brought another girl. Wrapped the saris again and asked her opinion. Saree seller said, it has been doing this for half an hour. She calls someone or something, asks her opinion, but has not yet decided which saree she should buy. Why so much dependence on the praise of others? We always want to hear praise from others for all the work we do. Even if others do not give us certificates, we do not believe that our work is good. People want to prove their superiority by showing many such certificates to others. In ordinary life, it does not seem strange, but when someone moves towards self-development, then he starts to understand this. Once Osho was asked this, he replied enthusiastically - We live with praise because we do not respect ourselves. From childhood, parents, teachers, keep scolding children, comparing them to other children. This comparison breaks children's self-confidence. They lose confidence in themselves. They are not satisfied until others say good. Release dependence on others constantly. If you

Did some work and happy your heart in it

If found, what could be a bigger certificate than this?